Young Adult Ministry Models & Best Practices
Successful Church Programs, Case Studies, and Practical Implementation
Executive Summary
What This Document Provides
After researching national young adult data (05 National Young Adult Research), this document examines what successful churches are actually doing to reach and disciple young adults. This includes:
- Case study highlights illustrating key programming principles (full profiles in 06 Church Case Studies)
- Program models and structures
- Specific programming ideas (small groups, service, social, spiritual)
- Common mistakes and pitfalls to avoid
- Staffing and resource requirements
- Best practices synthesis
Key Findings
The Core Model That Works:
- Small groups are non-negotiable - Every successful young adult ministry is built on small groups
- Monthly large gatherings + weekly small groups = most common winning formula
- Connection to broader church - Avoid silo, integrate young adults into whole church life
- Volunteer or part-time leadership can work (don’t need full-time staff to start)
Programming Mix:
- Spiritual depth (Bible study, worship, prayer)
- Social connection (game nights, movies, meals)
- Service/mission (local outreach, global trips)
- Life stage support (finances, relationships, career)
Biggest Mistakes to Avoid:
- Under-resourcing ministry (setting it up to fail)
- Making it a silo disconnected from rest of church
- Treating it like youth group for older people
- Trying to be “cool” instead of authentic
- Copying another church’s model without contextualizing
Patterns from Successful Churches
Based on case studies of thriving young adult ministries, several common structural elements emerge:
- Large group gatherings (monthly or weekly): Teaching + social time, all young adults together
- Small groups (weekly): Provide depth and discipleship, can be life-stage specific
- Service projects (quarterly): All young adults serving together builds community
- Social events (ongoing): Mix of inclusive and affinity-based activities
- Mentorship components: Connection to older believers for intergenerational relationships
- Leadership models: Range from volunteer coordinators to full-time staff
These elements appear across multiple successful models and church contexts.
Part 1: Case Study Highlights
For comprehensive church profiles, see 06 Church Case Studies. The examples below highlight specific programming insights that inform the models in Part 2.
Liquid Church (New Jersey)
Monthly large gathering + social events + small group connection.
What They Do Well:
- Proactive connection: Consistently ask “How can we get you connected to a small group?”
- Personal introductions: Take new members directly to small group leaders for in-person introductions (more success than directing them to website)
- Creating space: Intentional spaces for young adults to come together and connect
Key Insight: Personal, face-to-face connection beats digital connection every time. Website forms don’t work as well as physically introducing someone to a small group leader.
Source: Lifeway Research - Effective Young Adult Ministry
NPHX Church (Phoenix, Arizona)
Peer-led model using “galvanizers” (natural connectors) to build community.
What They Do Well:
- Identify natural leaders: Find young adults who naturally attract others
- Empower them: Give galvanizers freedom to lead and build community
- Multiplication model: One galvanizer attracts several, who then become galvanizers themselves
Key Insight: You don’t need professional staff to have effective young adult ministry. Empowered volunteers (especially young adults themselves) can lead thriving communities.
Source: Lifeway Research - Effective Young Adult Ministry
3Circle Church
Integration model connecting young adults to the whole church rather than a separate ministry.
What They Do Well:
- Avoid silo: Don’t create separate church experience for young adults
- Whole-church connection: Young adults involved in broader church life
- Sustainable model: Doesn’t require massive separate programming
Key Insight: Young adult ministry doesn’t have to be a completely separate entity. Integration with whole church can be the ministry model itself.
Source: Lifeway Research - Effective Young Adult Ministry
Passion City Church (Atlanta)
Monthly live gatherings + interest-based “Crews” (hiking, coffee, sports).
What They Do Well:
- Low barrier: Crews meet monthly (not weekly), making commitment manageable
- Interest-based: Young adults connect around shared passions (hiking, coffee, sports, etc.)
- Experiential: Activities-based, not just sit-and-talk
Key Insight: Interest-based small groups can work better than geography-based for young adults who are highly mobile and interested in specific activities.
Source: Passion City Church - Young Adults ATL, Passion City Church - Join a Crew
North Coast Church (San Diego)
Union2535 ministry targeting ages 25-35 specifically.
What They Do Well:
- Narrow age range: 25-35 is more homogeneous life stage than 18-35
- Life-stage relevant: Programming addresses career, relationships, finances for this specific age
- Clear target: Young professionals and young families know this is “for them”
Key Insight: A narrower age range can be MORE effective than broad “young adult” (18-35). 25-year-olds and 35-year-olds are in very different life stages.
Source: North Coast Church - Young Adult Ministries
Part 2: Program Models and Structures
Model 1: Monthly Large + Weekly Small
Structure:
- Monthly Large Gathering: 1st Friday or Saturday of month
- Teaching (30-40 min)
- Worship (15-20 min)
- Social time (food, games, conversation)
- Weekly Small Groups: Throughout the month
- 6-12 people
- Bible study + life sharing
- Meets in homes or church
Pros:
- Large gathering provides momentum and energy
- Small groups provide depth and relationship
- Monthly frequency reduces volunteer burnout
- Weekly small groups maintain connection between large gatherings
Cons:
- Requires coordinating both large and small group calendars
- Need multiple small group leaders
Best For:
- Churches with 50-200 young adults
- Volunteer-led ministries
- Churches wanting high-impact events without weekly commitment
Resources Needed:
- Venue for monthly gathering (church building usually fine)
- Food/hospitality budget ($200-500/month)
- 3-6 small group leaders
- 1 coordinator to oversee both
Model 2: Weekly Gathering Only
Structure:
- Weekly Meeting: Same night every week (e.g., Thursday nights)
- Worship + teaching + small group discussion
- All-in-one format
- 90-120 minutes
Pros:
- Consistent rhythm
- One thing to promote/remember
- Easier to build attendance momentum
- All-in-one format means everyone participates in everything
Cons:
- Weekly commitment is hard for busy young adults
- Harder to build deep relationships in large group setting
- Burnout risk for leaders (every week is a lot)
Best For:
- Smaller ministries (15-40 young adults)
- Churches with paid staff who can sustain weekly programming
- College towns where weekly gatherings are cultural norm
Resources Needed:
- Consistent venue
- Weekly setup/teardown volunteers
- Food/hospitality budget ($100-200/week)
- Teaching team (or single gifted teacher)
Model 3: Small Groups Only (No Large Gathering)
Structure:
- Multiple Small Groups: Meet weekly in homes
- No large gathering
- Each group operates semi-independently
- Occasional combined events (quarterly service project, annual retreat)
Pros:
- Low resource requirements
- High relational depth
- Sustainable with all-volunteer leadership
- Can start with just one group and multiply
Cons:
- Lack of critical mass/energy
- Hard for newcomers to find entry point
- Can feel scattered without cohesive identity
- Harder to cast vision without gathered community
Best For:
- Small churches (under 500 total attendance)
- Starting from scratch with limited resources
- Communities where young adults prefer intimate gatherings
Resources Needed:
- 1-3 small group leaders
- Homes willing to host
- Minimal budget (groups can be potluck)
- Coordinator to connect groups and cast vision
Model 4: Integration Model (No Separate Young Adult Ministry)
Structure:
- No dedicated young adult programming
- Young adults integrated into church-wide small groups, ministries, teams
- Intentional mentorship pairings (young with older)
Pros:
- Zero duplication of resources
- Natural intergenerational connection
- Sustainable without dedicated staff
- Reflects biblical model of church as family
Cons:
- Young adults may not feel like there’s a “place for them”
- Harder to attract unchurched young adults
- May not address life-stage-specific needs
- Risk of young adults feeling invisible
Best For:
- Very small churches (under 200 total attendance)
- Churches with strong mentorship culture already
- Older communities with few young adults
Resources Needed:
- Training for whole church on mentorship
- Intentional matchmaking (young with older)
- Flexibility in existing programming to be age-inclusive
Model 5: Partnership Model (Collaborate with Other Churches)
Structure:
- Multiple small churches partner to create combined young adult ministry
- Shared programming, pooled resources
- Young adults connect across church lines
Pros:
- Critical mass with combined numbers
- Shared costs and volunteer load
- Ecumenical connections
- More sustainable for small churches
Cons:
- Coordination challenges (multiple pastors, cultures, calendars)
- Travel time if churches are far apart
- Theological differences may create tension
- Loyalty divided among multiple churches
Best For:
- Small churches in same geographic area
- Denominations with multiple local congregations
- Churches already in relationship
Resources Needed:
- Agreement among church leaders
- Rotating hosting churches
- Shared budget contribution
- 1 coordinator (from one of the churches)
Part 3: Programming Ideas by Category
A. Spiritual Formation (Bible Study, Worship, Prayer)
Small Group Bible Studies:
- Weekly, 90 min format
- Discussion-based (not lecture)
- Work through books of Bible or topical series
- Include application questions and accountability
Worship Nights:
- Monthly or quarterly
- Extended worship time (45-60 min)
- Prayer for specific needs (city, nation, church)
- Intimate setting (dimmed lights, candles, acoustic music)
Morning Devotionals:
- Daily or weekly
- 6:30-7:30 AM before work
- Coffee + short devotional + prayer
- In-person or virtual (Zoom)
Theology Classes:
- 4-6 week series
- Topics: Systematic theology, apologetics, biblical interpretation
- Taught by pastor or mature believer
- Appeals to intellectually curious young adults
Scripture Memorization Challenges:
- Memorize chapter or book together
- Accountability through small groups
- Recite together at gathering
- Celebrate completion
Best Practices:
- Go deep (young adults want substance, not shallow)
- Make it interactive (discussion > lecture)
- Apply to real life (not just theory)
- Create safe space for questions and doubt
B. Social Connection (Building Relationships)
Board Game Nights:
- Easy to organize, low cost
- Works for large or small groups
- Natural conversation happens
- All skill levels welcome
Movie Nights:
- At church or theater
- Followed by discussion (especially if theme-based)
- Easy entry point for newcomers
Sports Leagues:
- Join city rec league as church team
- Or organize church tournaments
- Softball, volleyball, basketball, kickball
- Season-long commitment builds relationships
Outdoor Adventures:
- Hiking, camping, kayaking
- Appeals to adventure-seekers
- Small group setting in nature
- Less structured, more organic conversation
Dinner Parties / Potlucks:
- Rotate hosting homes
- 8-12 people ideal for conversation
- Shared meal builds community
- Can include discussion questions or leave it organic
Trivia Nights:
- At local brewery/restaurant or church
- Teams compete
- Fun, low-pressure, social
Seasonal Events:
- Pumpkin patch / apple picking (fall)
- Sledding / ice skating (winter)
- Beach day / cookout (summer)
- Easter sunrise service (spring)
Best Practices:
- Mix structured and unstructured social time
- Keep costs low (young adults are budget-conscious)
- Make it easy to bring friends (outreach opportunity)
- Follow up after event to connect people to ongoing community
Sources: Worship House Media - 21 Young Adult Ministry Ideas
C. Service and Mission (Living Out Faith)
Local Service Projects:
- Food bank volunteering
- Habitat for Humanity builds
- School cleanup days
- Nursing home visits
- Park cleanups
- Serve at homeless shelter
“Shark Tank” Outreach:
- Young adults research and pitch charitable work ideas
- Older adults critique and evaluate pitches
- Church funds winning ideas
- Young adults execute projects
Regular Community Partnerships:
- Adopt a school and serve monthly
- Partner with local nonprofit
- Consistent presence builds relationships
Global Mission Trips:
- Short-term (1-2 weeks)
- Partner with existing mission organization
- Serve + cultural experience + team bonding
- Life-changing for participants
“Serve Sunday”:
- One Sunday per quarter, skip regular gathering
- Instead, serve together at multiple sites
- Debrief over meal afterward
Best Practices:
- Make service regular, not one-off
- Reflect on experience (What did we learn? How did God work?)
- Include both “helping” service (food bank) and “building” service (construction)
- Don’t just “do for” people—build relationships
Sources: Worship House Media - 21 Young Adult Ministry Ideas, NYI Connect - 3 Creative Ways to Engage Young Adults
D. Life Stage Support (Practical Help)
Financial Literacy Classes:
- Budgeting basics
- Debt management
- Saving and investing
- Biblical principles of money
- Practical and highly desired
Career Development:
- Resume workshops
- Interview prep
- Networking events
- Calling and vocation discussions
Relationship and Dating Series:
- Biblical view of dating and marriage
- Healthy relationships
- Boundaries and purity
- How to pick a spouse
Young Marrieds Groups:
- For couples married 0-5 years
- Marriage enrichment
- Conflict resolution
- Mentorship from older couples
New Parents Groups:
- For parents of 0-3 year olds
- Parenting support and encouragement
- Practical tips
- Spiritual formation of children
Best Practices:
- Address felt needs (finances, relationships, career)
- Provide practical tools, not just theory
- Invite experts (financial planner, counselor, HR professional)
- Connect to biblical principles (not secular self-help)
E. Creative and Experiential
Story House Events:
- Transform space into living room with coffee bar
- Invite storyteller to share testimony or life story
- Q&A and discussion
- Intimate and authentic
Creative Bible Study:
- Retell Bible stories from different perspectives
- Use video, skits, art, music
- Engage creativity, not just intellect
Artistic Expression:
- Interpret Scripture through art (paint, draw, sculpt)
- Gallery display in church
- Worship through creativity
“Connect Dinners”:
- 6-8 young adults + team members
- Facilitated conversation with questions
- Helps people go deeper quickly
Intergenerational Dinners:
- Young adults + older adults
- Older adults share what their 20s were like
- Young adults share what life is like today
- Mutual learning and mentorship
Best Practices:
- Not everyone is creative, so don’t make ALL programming creative
- Use as occasional variety, not primary model
- Creates memorable experiences
Sources: Worship House Media - 21 Young Adult Ministry Ideas, USCCB - Ideas for Ministry to Young Adults
Part 4: Common Mistakes and Pitfalls to Avoid
Mistake #1: Under-Resourcing the Ministry
What This Looks Like:
- Adding “young adult ministry” to already-overloaded youth pastor
- No budget allocation
- Expecting volunteers to do everything with no support
- Half-hearted effort that communicates “you’re an afterthought”
Why It Fails:
- Under-resourced ministries struggle to maintain success longer than 6 months to a year
- Young adults can tell when they’re not a priority
- Burnout happens quickly without proper support
How to Avoid:
- Allocate real budget (even if small to start)
- Give leader(s) dedicated time (even if volunteer)
- Provide training and resources
- Show institutional commitment from leadership
Source: Josiah Kennealy - Common Pitfalls
Mistake #2: Creating a Silo (Church Within a Church)
What This Looks Like:
- Young adult ministry completely separate from rest of church
- Own worship services, own budget, own culture
- No connection to broader church body
- “Graduates out” when they hit 35 or have kids
Why It Fails:
- Disconnects young adults from intergenerational relationships
- Misses opportunity for mentorship and wisdom transfer
- Creates transition problems (where do they go after?)
- Divides church instead of unifying it
How to Avoid:
- Young adult ministry is extension of church vision, not separate vision
- Integrate young adults into church-wide ministry teams
- Connect to older believers through mentorship
- Have conversations with senior pastor about how YA ministry fits into church vision
Source: Josiah Kennealy - Common Pitfalls
Mistake #3: Treating It Like Youth Group for Older People
What This Looks Like:
- Copying youth ministry model and slapping “young adult” label on it
- Games, pizza, and shallow teaching
- Treating 25-year-olds like they’re 17
- Keeping them in “sub-adult” category
Why It Fails:
- Young adults are ADULTS, not big teenagers
- They face adult challenges (career, finances, marriage, purpose)
- Infantilizing them is alienating
- Ministry to young adults is holistically different from youth ministry
How to Avoid:
- Go deep, not shallow (they want substance)
- Address adult concerns (work, money, relationships, purpose)
- Treat them as peers, not children
- Give them real responsibility and leadership
Source: Josiah Kennealy - Common Pitfalls
Mistake #4: Trying Too Hard to Be “Cool”
What This Looks Like:
- Obsessing over being relevant, trendy, hip
- Using all the latest slang
- Trying to dress/act young
- Chasing cultural trends
Why It Fails:
- “You can become so relevant that you become irrelevant”
- Millennials and Gen Z can smell inauthenticity instantly
- Loses the core message of Christ in pursuit of cool factor
- Young adults want substance and authenticity, not performance
How to Avoid:
- Be yourself, not a caricature
- Focus on authentic relationships, not image
- Teach the Bible faithfully (that never goes out of style)
- Let culture inform method, but not message
Source: Josiah Kennealy - Common Pitfalls
Mistake #5: Copying Another Church’s Model Without Contextualizing
What This Looks Like:
- Going to conference, getting excited about what Church X is doing
- Trying to replicate it exactly at your church
- Not considering your church size, culture, resources, context
Why It Fails:
- What works at 5,000-person church in urban LA may not work at 500-person church in rural Indiana
- Different communities have different needs and cultures
- Cookie-cutter approaches ignore context
How to Avoid:
- Learn PRINCIPLES from other churches, not just programs
- Ask “What would this look like in OUR context?”
- Start small and scale based on response
- Be willing to adapt and iterate
Mistake #6: Misplaced Expectations (Youth Group Mindset)
What This Looks Like:
- Students graduate high school expecting church to create complete young adult programming for them
- Expecting same level of programming as youth ministry (weekly events, trips, etc.)
- Consumer mindset: “What is church doing FOR me?”
Why It Fails:
- Young adults need to transition from consumers to contributors
- Church can’t replicate youth ministry programming for adults
- Sets up disappointment and dropout
How to Avoid:
- Set expectations in high school: adult church is different from youth group
- Emphasize young adults as LEADERS and SERVERS, not just attendees
- Teach that young adult ministry is what YOU BUILD, not what’s built FOR you
Source: Josiah Kennealy - Common Pitfalls
Mistake #7: Lack of Consistency
What This Looks Like:
- Ministry starts and stops
- Leadership changes frequently
- Event schedule is unpredictable
- No clear rhythm or expectations
Why It Fails:
- Young adults need stability (especially given cultural chaos)
- Inconsistency communicates lack of commitment
- Hard to build momentum without reliable rhythm
How to Avoid:
- “Consistency is an important part of creating successful young adult ministry”
- Choose a sustainable rhythm and stick to it
- Leaders need to be pillars of consistency
- Communicate clearly and far in advance
Source: Josiah Kennealy - Common Pitfalls
Mistake #8: Over-Programming
What This Looks Like:
- Trying to offer too much too soon
- Weekly events + monthly events + retreats + service projects all launching simultaneously
- Exhausts leaders and participants before the ministry builds momentum
Why It Fails:
- Leader burnout is the #1 killer of young adult ministries
- Participants feel overwhelmed by options
- Quality drops when spread too thin
How to Avoid:
- Better to do one thing well than many things poorly
- Start with one consistent gathering + one small group track
- Add programming only as leadership capacity grows
Mistake #9: No Clear Next Steps
What This Looks Like:
- “Come to young adult night” but then what?
- No pathway from first visit to deeper engagement
- People attend once or twice but never connect
Why It Fails:
- Young adults need a clear on-ramp, not just an open door
- Without next steps, newcomers drift away
- Ministry stalls at “event attendance” without growing disciples
How to Avoid:
- Clear pathway: attend → connect → small group → serve → lead
- Every gathering includes a specific invitation to the next step
- Follow-up with newcomers within 48 hours
Part 5: Staffing and Resource Requirements
Leadership Options
Option 1: Volunteer Coordinator
Structure:
- Dedicated volunteer (not staff) leads young adult ministry
- 5-10 hours per week commitment
- Often a young adult themselves or young family
Pros:
- Zero salary cost
- Can be highly effective if right person
- Sustainable for small churches
- “Tent-making” model allows vocational diversity
Cons:
- Limited time availability
- May lack training/experience
- Burnout risk if not careful
- Hard to sustain if life circumstances change (job change, moves, has baby)
Best For:
- Churches launching young adult ministry
- Churches under 500 attendance
- Churches testing the waters before hiring staff
Support Needed:
- Training and resourcing from church
- Small budget to work with
- Team of volunteers to help
- Regular check-ins with pastor
Option 2: Part-Time Staff (10-20 hours/week)
Structure:
- Part-time paid position
- Could be standalone or combined with another role (worship, admin, etc.)
- 30,000 annual salary range
Pros:
- Dedicated time = more capacity than volunteer
- Shows institutional commitment
- Can be more strategic and consistent
- Still affordable for mid-size churches
Cons:
- Budget required
- May not be enough time for robust programming
- Person may need other income source
Best For:
- Churches 500-1,500 attendance
- Churches with some young adult momentum already
- Churches ready to invest but not ready for full-time
Option 3: Full-Time Staff
Structure:
- Full-time young adult pastor/director
- 60,000+ salary + benefits
- Dedicated to young adult ministry only
Pros:
- Maximum capacity and focus
- Can build robust programming
- Professional leadership
- Signals major institutional commitment
Cons:
- Significant budget required (80K+ with benefits)
- May be overkill for smaller ministries
- Creates dependency on one person
Best For:
- Churches over 1,500 attendance
- Churches with 100+ young adults already engaged
- Churches with resources and vision for major investment
Option 4: Hybrid (Staff + Volunteer Team)
Structure:
- One part-time or full-time staff person
- Team of 5-10 volunteers leading specific areas (small groups, service, social, etc.)
- Staff person equips and supports volunteers
Pros:
- Leverages both paid and volunteer leadership
- Sustainable and scalable
- Develops young adult leaders
- Distributes workload
Cons:
- Requires strong volunteer recruitment and training
- Coordination can be complex
Best For:
- Most churches (this is the sweet spot)
- Churches wanting to scale without massive budget
Budget Considerations
National Average:
- Churches invest average of $1,500 per youth per year (includes staff salaries + program budget)
- This is for youth ministry, but similar principle applies to young adult ministry
Realistic Young Adult Ministry Budget (Annual):
Small Ministry (25-50 young adults):
- Staff/leadership: 15,000 (volunteer or part-time)
- Programming: 5,000
- Hospitality (food): 3,000
- Events/retreats: 3,000
- Resources (curriculum, training): 1,000
- Total: 27,000
Medium Ministry (50-100 young adults):
- Staff/leadership: 40,000 (part-time to full-time)
- Programming: 8,000
- Hospitality: 6,000
- Events/retreats: 8,000
- Resources: 2,000
- Total: 64,000
Large Ministry (100-200+ young adults):
- Staff/leadership: 80,000 (full-time staff)
- Programming: 15,000
- Hospitality: 12,000
- Events/retreats: 15,000
- Resources: 5,000
- Total: 127,000
Source: Ministry Architects - Youth Ministry Norms
Volunteer Roles and Structure
Core Leadership Team (3-5 people):
- Young adult ministry coordinator (overall vision and leadership)
- Small group coordinator (recruits and supports small group leaders)
- Events coordinator (plans and executes social events)
- Service coordinator (organizes service projects)
- Communications coordinator (social media, emails, promotion)
Small Group Leaders (1 per group):
- Facilitates weekly small group
- Shepherds 6-12 young adults
- Spiritual gifts: teaching, shepherding, hospitality
Hospitality Team (4-6 people):
- Food prep and setup for gatherings
- Create welcoming environment
- Greet newcomers
Worship Team (3-5 people):
- Lead worship at large gatherings
- Could be combined with church-wide worship team
Mentor Couples (5-10 couples):
- Older believers who mentor young adults
- Meet regularly for meals, coffee, life conversations
Spiritual Gifts Needed in Young Adult Ministry
For Coordinator/Leader:
- Leadership
- Administration
- Shepherding
- Teaching or exhortation
- Evangelism
For Small Group Leaders:
- Shepherding
- Teaching
- Hospitality
- Encouragement
- Discernment
For Support Team:
- Helps/service
- Hospitality
- Administration
- Giving
Source: UMCD - Young Adult Ministry Coordinator
Part 6: Best Practices Synthesis
What Makes Young Adult Ministry Successful?
Based on all research, case studies, and expert input, here are the non-negotiables:
For detailed research on what young adults want from church — community, authenticity, spiritual depth, mentorship, structure, and active participation — see 05 National Young Adult Research, Part 4. The points below highlight additional implementation principles that emerged from case study analysis.
1. Champion of the Cause
The strongest young adult ministries have a champion who feels empowered, supported, believed in, and resourced.
- One person (staff or volunteer) who OWNS the vision
- Passionate about young adults and willing to invest time
- Supported by senior leadership and church
- Given authority and resources to lead
2. Small Groups as Foundation
Every successful young adult ministry is built on small groups. Not optional — this is THE model that works. Weekly commitment in groups of 6-12 with Bible study, life sharing, and prayer. Consistency is key. (See 05 National Young Adult Research, Part 5 for full research on small group effectiveness.)
3. Mix of Programming
Balance spiritual, social, service.
- Not just Bible study (need social connection)
- Not just hangouts (need spiritual formation)
- Not just service (need inward growth too)
- Rhythm of all three throughout year
4. Empower Young Adults to Lead
Ministry WITH them, not ministry TO them.
- Young adults leading small groups
- Young adults planning events
- Young adults on teaching team
- Peer leadership is powerful
5. Contextualize, Don’t Copy
Learn principles from others, but apply to your context.
- What works in LA may not work in Indiana
- Consider your church size, culture, resources
- Start small and scale based on response
- Be willing to adapt and iterate
Part 7: Example Model for Mid-Size Suburban Churches
Synthesizing Research for BRCC’s Context
Based on research synthesis considering:
- Church size (1,000+ members)
- Location (southern Hancock County, suburban growth area)
- Local demographics (young families prominent)
- National trends (young adults returning to church)
- Successful church models (06 Church Case Studies and Part 1 highlights)
- Best practices compiled in research
The following illustrates how these elements could be configured for a church similar to BRCC. This is presented as one possible approach based on research findings, not as a prescription.
Example: Integrated Young Adult Ministry Model
Target Demographic: Ages 22-32, all life stages (single, married, parents)
Rationale: 09 Integrated Ministry Analysis and 10 Suburban Strategy Analysis analyze the strategic choice between singles-focused and integrated models. An integrated approach aligns with suburban demographic patterns where young married couples are more accessible than singles.
Core Programming (4 Components)
1. Monthly Large Gathering
- When: First Friday of each month, 7:00-9:00 PM
- Where: BRCC main building (or appropriate space)
- Format:
- Worship (20 min)
- Teaching (35 min) - life-stage relevant topics
- Social time (45-60 min) - food, games, conversation
- Purpose: Create energy, cast vision, entry point for newcomers
2. Weekly Small Groups
- When: Various nights throughout month (choose what works for each group)
- Where: Homes
- Format:
- 6-12 people per group
- 90 minutes
- Bible study + life sharing + prayer
- Types:
- Singles group (20s)
- Young married couples (no kids yet)
- Young families (parents of 0-5 year olds)
- Mixed group (any life stage welcome)
- Purpose: Deep relationships, discipleship, community
3. Quarterly Service Projects
- When: One Saturday per quarter (4x per year)
- Where: Local community
- Format:
- Morning service (Habitat, food bank, park cleanup, etc.)
- Lunch together afterward to debrief
- Purpose: Live out faith through action, teamwork, outreach
4. Ongoing Social Events
- When: 1-2x per month (in addition to large gathering)
- Where: Various
- Types:
- Game nights
- Movie nights
- Sports (rec league team)
- Outdoor adventures (hiking, etc.)
- Seasonal events (pumpkin patch, beach day, etc.)
- Mix of inclusive (everyone) and affinity (guys’ night, ladies’ night, couples’ date night)
- Purpose: Fun, relationship-building, easy entry point
Supporting Elements
Mentorship Program:
- Pair young adults (especially young marrieds) with older couples in church
- Informal relationships, not structured curriculum
- Meals, coffee, life questions
Ministry Team Integration:
- Young adults serve on church-wide teams (worship, kids, missions, etc.)
- Not siloed from rest of church
Digital Presence:
- Instagram and Facebook for promotion and engagement
- GroupMe or WhatsApp for small group communication
- Church website with young adult ministry page
Leadership Structure
Phase 1 (Year 1): Volunteer Leadership
- 1 volunteer coordinator (5-10 hrs/week)
- 3-5 small group leaders
- Event planning team (3-4 people)
- Total: 10-15 volunteers
Phase 2 (Year 2-3): Part-Time Staff
- Hire part-time young adult pastor (15-20 hrs/week)
- Continue growing volunteer team
- Scale programming as ministry grows
Phase 3 (Year 3+): Full-Time Staff (if needed)
- If ministry reaches 100-150 young adults, consider full-time staff
Success Metrics
Year 1 Goals:
- 20-40 regular participants
- 2-3 active small groups
- 4 service projects completed
- 1 retreat or conference attended
- 10-15 active volunteers
Year 2 Goals:
- 40-80 regular participants
- 4-6 active small groups
- Hire part-time staff
- Launch mentorship program
- Begin multiplication (new leaders rising up)
Conclusion
Key Research Findings
Research across multiple successful young adult ministries reveals consistent patterns:
- Small groups provide discipleship depth
- Large gatherings create energy and vision
- Service projects enable faith expression
- Social connection addresses loneliness epidemic
- Authentic relationships matter more than polished programming
- Integration with broader church prevents silos
- Spiritual depth sustains long-term engagement
Contextual Factors Relevant to BRCC
Churches similar to BRCC (1,000+ members, suburban context, strong existing programs) show particular advantages:
- Established foundation provides credibility
- Existing children’s/family programs attract young families
- Suburban growth areas present demographic opportunity
- National trends show young adults returning to church (contrary to previous decades)
Common Implementation Phases
Research on church launches typically shows:
- Leadership alignment and vision-casting
- Core team formation (volunteer or staff coordinator)
- Initial programming launch (often starting with monthly gatherings)
- Small group development as community forms
- Scaling based on attendance patterns and response
Sources Summary
- Lifeway Research - Effective Young Adult Ministry
- Passion City Church - Young Adults
- North Coast Church - Young Adult Ministries
- Worship House Media - 21 Young Adult Ministry Ideas
- USCCB - Ideas for Ministry to Young Adults
- NYI Connect - 3 Creative Ways to Engage Young Adults
- Josiah Kennealy - Common Pitfalls
- Josiah Kennealy - 10 Steps to Starting Young Adult Ministry
- Influence Magazine - Ten Steps
- Boundless - So You Want to Start a Young Adult Ministry
- Ministry Architects - Youth Ministry Norms
- UMCD - Young Adult Ministry Coordinator
- Fuller Youth Institute - Creating Connection